George Lucas explained, the Jedi are trained, allowed, and expected to love people, even their enemies, the Sith, but they are not supposed to form attachments. Attachment connoted possession and the inability to let go, thus, it wasn't love, and led to the dark side of the Force.
Feeding into fear of loss and greed, leading to jealousy, attachment was selfish, a shadow of greed and thus a path of the dark side of the Force. Therefore, attachment was forbidden for a Jedi, who had to train themselves to let go of everything they were afraid to lose; to renounce all attachments.
In the Jedi Order, emotional attachment and possession were forbidden because it was believed they could lead to jealousy and fear of loss, and ultimately the dark side of the Force; for that reason, Jedi were not allowed to marry.
This is the most well-known of the Jedi rules. Love leads to attachment and attachment leads to strong emotions, which are the path to the Dark Side of the Force. Because of this, Jedi are forbidden to fall in love. This, of course, doesn't stop Anakin Skywalker from falling in love with Padmé.
Although the 2002 film Star Wars: Episode II Attack of the Clones established that the Jedi Order members couldn't marry or have children, Star Wars creator George Lucas explained that despite their monastic culture, the Jedi were permitted to have sexual intercourse as long they didn't form attachments or possessive ...
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They consider attachment that came with marriage to be dangerous, despite the most pure and genuine intentions. Attachment and possession were forbidden by the Jedi Order because they could lead to jealousy and fear of loss, which would eventually lead to the dark side of the Force.
During the High Republic Era, the Jedi maintained the ideals of avoiding attachment but made sure to show great acts of compassion towards those who were suffering, such as offering hugs to those who were grieving.
History. Under the original order, Jedi were forbidden to marry because they believed attachment could lead an individual to the dark side, as was the case with Shaela Nuur.
The Star Wars prequel-era Jedi Order forbade marriage among Jedi, but George Lucas allowed one Jedi, Ki-Adi-Mundi, to have multiple wives in Legends. The Expanded Universe, now called Legends, was the official Star Wars canon from 1977 to 2014 and continues to influence the new canon.
The director has, on several occasions, confirmed that Jedi were not expected to be celibate, but were expected to abstain from forming strong personal attachments to other beings. In Lucas's words, it's "possessive relationships" that cloud the judgment of a Jedi -- as was the case with Anakin and Padme.
The marriage, witnessed by the droids C-3PO and R2-D2, was kept secret due to Amidala's place as a prominent Senator in the Galactic Republic and because of Skywalker's membership in the Jedi Order; the Jedi Code prevented Jedi from falling in love and forming attachments such as marriage.
Lucas said the Jedi are not celibates, they are forbidden from attachments and possessive relationships (the two are identical, don't confuse love with attachment).
There is no ignorance; there is knowledge. There is no passion; there is serenity. There is no chaos; there is harmony. There is no death; there is the Force.
They often, but not always, like the Jedi, considered romantic love a dangerous emotion, but for different reasons. While the Jedi discouraged romance in order to prevent attachments, Sith did the same to prevent emotions deemed weak by them. However, this didn't stop some Sith from taking lovers.
Jedi Master Ki-Adi-Mundi was the most famous member of the family. Due to the low Cerean birthrate, he was allowed by the other Jedi to follow the Cerean custom of polygamous marriage—he had four honor wives and seven daughters.
Assigned the Jedi Watchman of the Cerean sector, Mundi was granted a rare exception to the Jedi Order's ban on marriage due to his species' low birth rate and had a polygamous family of five wives and seven children, although he was able to love them without being attached.
In reality, the two star-crossed lovers were married at Varykino, a lake retreat in Lake Country on Naboo. The union was witnessed by the droids C-3PO and R2-D2. The marriage remained a secret, as Skywalker could have been expelled from the Jedi Order if the union was discovered by the Jedi Council.
What they are not allowed to do is submit to feelings of fear, hate or anger. If a Jedi could repeatedly drive someone face-first into the ground without hate, anger or malice, then they would not be betraying the principles of the Order.
The strongest among the Exiles, Ajunta Pall, became the first to hold the title Dark Lord of the Sith. His contemporaries, such as Karness Muur and XoXaan, became Sith Lords. The human Dark Jedi interbred with the Sith species, who also had an affinity for the Dark Side. They would become the original Sith Empire.
Jediism attracted public attention in 2001 when a number of people recorded their religion as "Jedi" on national censuses. Jediism is inspired by certain elements of Star Wars, namely the fictional religion of the Jedi.
Although Jedi were not expressly forbidden from communicating with their birth parents or siblings, most of them felt little connection to their biological family because they had been inducted into the Order as infants. The revelation of one's parentage could have profound implications for an individual.
During one of these missions she would break the Jedi Code's rule of attachment by falling in love with Darman, RC-1136, a clone commando in Omega Squad, and becoming pregnant with his child, Venku Skirata. The two would later marry in the traditional Mandalorian way shortly before her death in 19 BBY.
During an early assignment as a Padawan with her Jedi Master Kast Fulier, Etain met the clone commandos of the Omega Squad, an encounter that changed how the rest of her life played out. Darman Skirata, formally RC-1136, was a clone commando of Omega Squad that Etain later fell in love with as the Clone Wars continued.
